A Beginner’s Guide To Strap-On Sex: Part 3

Well, well, well… you’re a lucky bunch aren’t you? I normally don’t share my tips and secrets with just anyone. But…I feel, like, there is this connection between us…yep… I really like you. So… alright I’ll tell ya.

There are many ways to ‘jazz up’ strap-on sex, for the strapper as well as the lucky strapee on the receiving end.

We’ve seen a huge increase in the number of couples (both girl-girl and especially boy-girl) that want to get into, develop, and have mega-fun with strap-ons. And who could blame them?! But where do you go for the best information, especially if you’re starting out?

For the ultimate hints and tips there are whole books dedicated to the subject. Check out the Ultimate Guide to Strap On Sex by Fairy Butch, and for bend-over-boyfriend style (an industry term for those in the know), The Adventerous Couples Guide to Strap On Sex by Violet Blue is highly recommended.

My favourite little secret is to grab a little bullet vibe such as the super slim Micro Tingler, or for a cord free vibe the RO-88mm Ammunition For Love and pop it between your toy and your harness or yourself (depending on what type of harness you’re using) to make the whole kit and everyone feel the buzz.

Or what about a vibrating cockring, my favourite being the Penthouse Couples Collection, either facing your partner to vibe them, or, what about turning it around and upside down (inside your harness) to vibe on you, you greedy lil’ devil.

Oh… what about popping some Fun Factory Smartballs in you (if you’re the strapper) and they will rattle, roll, and gently vibe inside you while thrusting. very nice…

And for the anally adventurous, what about popping a vibrating plug in whilst you use your harness. The Slimline Unisex Plug is a great hands free anal vibe, or even the Wireless Vibrating Buttplug, again hands free, but your partner could have the wireless control. What a lot of fun you could have with that!

Don’t forget the lube!

Okay, so that’s all my little secrets and tips that I’m willing to part with, for now, but keep checking back for there is always more to learn my sweet lovelies.