advice Archive

  • The Sex Coach: Allow Some Self-Indulgence!

    The Sex Coach: Allow Some Self-Indulgence!

    One of the absolute keys to good sex is the ability to let go, to surrender to the experience. Essentially what women need to do is allow for self-indulgence.

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  • Advice: Men Can Have Multiple Orgasms Too…

    Advice: Men Can Have Multiple Orgasms Too…

    Pursue something that will benefit both of you - discover your guy’s multi-orgasmic response!

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  • The Sex Coach: Neuroplasticity = Moulding Your Brain For Sex

    The Sex Coach: Neuroplasticity = Moulding Your Brain For Sex

    Greetings from Vietnam! I’m here for two weeks doing a spiritual retreat again. This week my partner, Oscar, is doing it as it’s his first time, and I’ll be doing next week’s as it’s my second. So I have a week to relax and reflect in an extremely beautiful and serene garden resort on the [...]

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  • Advice: How To Have A Naughty Holiday!

    Advice: How To Have A Naughty Holiday!

    With our northern neighbours soaking up the sunshine (and rubbing it in our collective televisual faces) and our own weather managing more frosty than frisky, our thoughts naturally turn to that tropical getaway, or a spot of travel in a warmer, northern cliamte.

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  • The Sex Coach: Before Play Suggestions

    The Sex Coach: Before Play Suggestions

    Given how busy and distracted we all are, it's the 'getting to sex' stage that's the most challenging for modern couples. I call this stage of sex 'beforeplay'.

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  • The Sex Coach: True Intimacy

    The Sex Coach: True Intimacy

    Now certainly intimacy does require connection and communication, but it’s the how, the what and the how much that matters. Let’s look at the two fundamental aspects of intimacy - connection and communication - debunk a few myths and look at what really matters.

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  • For Her Pleasure: Sexilicious Tips for Guys

    For Her Pleasure: Sexilicious Tips for Guys

    Every month, men’s magazines are packed full of articles on how to be a better lover, how to maximize her pleasuring, and how to have the best sex ever. With so much information coming your way, it can be a bit overwhelming to identify what’s truly good advice versus what amounts to no more than rubbish.

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  • Advice: Feeling Sexy When Pregnant

    Advice: Feeling Sexy When Pregnant

    While a mother-to-be can take great pride in her budding form, feeling sexy in it can be another matter entirely. With pregnancy one of the most sensual times in a woman’s life, its becomes a peak time to cultivate feelings of sexiness that can invite more action at a critical point in a relationship.

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  • Sex Advice: Arousal Gels – Fact Or Fiction?

    Sex Advice: Arousal Gels – Fact Or Fiction?

    There are so many different kinds of sexual enhancers on the market, it can be hard to tell what’s “real” and what’s got the same level of credibility as a $10 Gucci handbag. So we looked into arousal gels and how they actually work to enhance your sex life.

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  • 10 Tips for Men’s Sexual Health

    10 Tips for Men’s Sexual Health

    Overall it is important that men become more attuned to, and confident with, their bodies, aware of their desires, needs and fantasies, and respectful of what their bodies are capable of doing. It all adds up to happy healthy men who just happen to be good lovers too!

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